Sharing a maté …

… is both a quotidien and a subtle experience. You don’t share with just anyone. You’re sipping from the same bombilla, after all. There’s a technique to it: filling the cup two-thirds full of the ‘tea’; jolting the woody bits to the top, trickling on the cold water, not too much and not too little; inserting the bombilla; having the hot water almost boiling but not quite and pouring it each time in the exact same spot; never moving the bombilla! — which is the metal straw with a wide, seive-like base. On a bad day the yerba tastes like straw chopped with a cigarette butt; other times it might be clover hay minced with a small joint, perhaps. More stimulant than sedative.
You drink it with family, with a partner, a friend, or an acquaintance who’s proving simpática.
It’s an eloquent moment when the little cup is slid to you across the table for the first time.
December 15th, 2009 at 8:22 am
‘… is both a quotidian and subtle experience.’
That it is – and it brings to mind LB’s reminder that we not underestimate the ’significance of the ordinary.’ Rituals such as this one are invitations that never fail to enrich.
December 6th, 2009 at 8:43 am
A new way to commune without words. wonderful! I look forward to initiating something of that eloquence here at 56. px